Dig into the Romeo and Juliet Effect, which describes the tendency to find someone more desirable when met by parental opposition. In 1972, psychologists at the University of Colorado surveyed 140 couples to determine whether a relationship facing parental disapproval was more likely to strengthen or crumble under the pressure. Can long-term success of a romantic relationship be predicted by the perceived approval or disapproval of the couple’s friends and family? Dig into the trend known as the Romeo and Juliet Effect. Directed by Maryna Buchynska, and action creative agency. This video made possible in collaboration with Character Lab Learn more about how TED-Ed partnerships work: 🤍bit.ly/TEDEdPartners A special thanks to H. Colleen Sinclair and Diane Felmlee who provided information and insights for the development of this video. Support Our Non-Profit Mission Support us on Patreon: 🤍bit.ly/TEDEdPatreon Check out our merch: 🤍bit.ly/TEDEDShop Connect With Us Sign up for our newsletter: 🤍bit.ly/TEDEdNewsletter Follow us on Facebook: 🤍bit.ly/TEDEdFacebook Find us on Twitter: 🤍bit.ly/TEDEdTwitter Peep us on Instagram: 🤍bit.ly/TEDEdInstagram Keep Learning View full lesson: 🤍ed.ted.com/lessons/would-you-stop-dating-someone-your-parents-didn-t-like Dig deeper with additional resources: 🤍ed.ted.com/lessons/would-you-stop-dating-someone-your-parents-didn-t-like#digdeeper Animator's website: 🤍and-action.net/ Thank you so much to our patrons for your support! Without you this video would not be possible! Barbara Smalley, Megan Douglas, Tim Leistikow, Ka-Hei Law, Hiroshi Uchiyama, Mark Morris, Misaki Sato, EdoKun, SookKwan Loong, Bev Millar, Lex Azevedo, Michael Aquilina, Jason A Saslow, Yansong Li, Cristóbal Moenne, Dawn Jordan, Prasanth Mathialagan, Samuel Doerle, David Rosario, Dominik Kugelmann - they-them, Siamak Hajizadeh, Ryohky Araya, Mayank Kaul, Christophe Dessalles, Heather Slater, Sandra Tersluisen, Zhexi Shan, Bárbara Nazaré, Andrea Feliz, Victor E Karhel, Sydney Evans, Latora, Noel Situ, emily lam, Sid, Niccolò Frassetto, Mana, I'm here because of Knowledge Fight Facebook group., Linda Freedman, Edgardo Cuellar, Jaspar Carmichael-Jack, Michael Burton, VIVIANA A GARCIA BESNE, The Vernon's, Olha Bahatiuk, Jesús Bíquez Talayero, Chels Raknrl, Sai Pranavi Jonnalagadda, Stuart Rice, Jing Chen, Vector-Dopamine math, Jasper Song, Giorgio Bugnatelli, Chardon, Eddy Trochez, OnlineBookClub.org, Eric Shear, Leith Salem, Omar Hicham and Adrian Rotaru.
I would argue this is not applicable in most part of Asia. For most Asians (especially southeast Asians), if the parents do not like the you, game over mate.
I love how the animation is different on every video
Ted talks too much. HONOR your father and mother.
did someone noticed the illusion at ABYBtcM2D28&t=3m19s 3:19 , the man on the right side has blue wavy lines around him. If you'll focus on the 3 wav lines on the right, the direction of waves the left wavy lines seems to be moving outwards, but its moving inside. And the same, if you'll focus on the left wavy lines right ones seems to be moving outside but they're also moving inside !!!!
I've never dated anyone and likely never will, so how could I know?
It depends. I wouldn’t do something right away just because someone says “don’t do this or that.” I’d probably say, “Why no? What’s the problem?”
The Tragedy of Romeo and Juliet
Two households, both alike in dignity,
In fair Verona, where we lay our scene,
From ancient grudge break to new mutiny,
Where civil blood makes civil hands unclean.
From forth the fatal loins of these two foes
A pair of star-cross'd lovers take their life;
Whose misadventured piteous overthrows
Do with their death bury their parents' strife.
The fearful passage of their death-mark'd love,
And the continuance of their parents' rage,
Which, but their children's end, nought could remove,
Is now the two hours' traffic of our stage;
The which if you with patient ears attend,
What here shall miss, our toil shall strive to mend.
Not in Africa 😂
Bad parents being "Biological ancestor". Lol
My dad didn't like my wife when we first started dating. I didn't talk to him for a couple years after I moved in with her. We've been together 12 years now and my dad has eventually warmed up to her. He just wanted me to date someone in college.
this is like the part from the Harry Potter books where everyone reads the quibbler because it's banned
I will just make my lover hypnotize my parents.
Honestly I feel myself as a person of defiant reaction
Imagine saving your parents as “Biological Ancestor” 💀💔
Short answer yes. My mom is really laid back and has same values as me for the most part, if she had a big enough issue with someone to tell me, hey I don't think it's a good idea, something is either up with the guy or her.
I have a beautiful relationship with my parents, and they tell me how to look out for certain signs. Not,"oh leave that person" there were people that disagreed with their relationship and they did them regardless. Got married, and had another baby 😂😂😂😂😂 they don't get in my business, because they let it be known they have their own marriage to worry about it. We are grown, and have our own decisions to make. What are my parents gonna do, whoop me? Lmfao 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm not f**king them. We are grown.